Following last month's feature on Big Dick Energy, which has had a staggering amount of views here on meatzine.com, I talk to my mate Joe about his smaller cock and how he feels he measures up.
Adrian: So, as you know I've been thinking a lot about dick size (nothing new there) and doing a little exploration for the meat blog. I've already spoken to a guy, Liam, who is very
well-hung and he told me the kind of pros and cons about having a large cock and his feelings about it. I was really curious to know about how it feels as, like you, I've got what might be considered a smaller cock. So, I'm curious to know what your own perception of your dick is.
Joe: Ok, so I'd definitely consider myself the owner of a smaller dick. I think I usually describe it as average but i'm not even sure what that really means.
A: I think it can be kinda subjective in a lot of ways and very tied up with the person it's attached to, unless it's what is considered big. Like I've been so attacted to guys who would say they had a smaller cock, but my perception would be so different to theirs, because I fancy them, or whatever. I mean unless it's really small. Does that make sense?
J: Yeah, I completely get that. I think when people hear small maybe they think of a micro penis situation, but i think there are a lot of guys who are average or smaller than average out there and we just don't hear about them as often as we hear people talking about or looking for huge ones.
A: Yeah, there's definitely less conversation about smaller dicks and so much less online in terms of porn and on apps and stuff. It feels sometimes that everyone else has a massive wang except me.
J: That's absolutely how it feels. I think in terms of queer culture and gay male spaces in particular we have these completely distorted expectations of what an average penis looks like.
A: I've met so many guys who have well above average dicks and they are even more hung up about not measuring up.
Your're a single man about town. I'm curious to know what other guys reaction is to your cock? Personally I've never had any negative responses to mine, quite the opposite really.
J; I've honestly never had any negative reactions in terms of sexual experiences whether thats in relationships or hookups.
A: Are you happy to share your size? Providing you know it obviously.
J: I actually don't know it flaccid. There was a time when I was obsessed with measuring it as a teenager but that was a while back. I think for me my flaccid size changes depending on so many variables; temperature, exercise, what underwear i've been wearing all affect the size of my flaccid penis. I think erect I'm about 5 1/2 to 5 3/4 inches, depending on how turned on I am haha.
A: Yeah, I would say were pretty evenly matched then. Sometimes my flaccid cock all but disappears, which is a bit disappointing haha.
J: i always prefer my dick when i'm in warm weather, holiday willy is real and its my favourite time.
A: Has your size been an issue to you, or has it been something that's affected your self-confidence?
J: Yeah definitely, its something that I have been worried about in the past, and something I think I still need to do a lot of work on accepting.
A: I've photographed a lot of naked guys over the years. Generally guys who are hung are much more wiling to get their cocks out for meat, but I love it when a smaller guy is willing to just go for it. You've recently been doing a bit of life modelling, how has it been for you getting naked for that.
J: It's actually been an amazing thing for me in terms of self confidence. I started doing it to kind of reclaim my body for myself and be more comfortable and confident in my own skin. It's actually changed my perception of myself naked a bit which has been really healthy.
A: That's really good to hear. And have you had any comments specifically about your cock from artists/photographers?
J: It was strange the first time I modelled for an art class and you hear the tutor referencing your penis. There was definitely a moment of oh god everyones looking at my junk now...
My size has never been brought up though. I feel like theres a level of respect for models in those moments and everyone has been professional and kind.
A: Yeah, I guess thinking about it, I'd never make comment either.....although actually if I guy was really well-hung I'd probably say something haha. And, I think I probably have reassured smaller guys in the past about their cocks when they've posed for meat.
J: I definitely used to be much more conscious of myself naked but decided that i would just have a fuck it year and do things that scared me a bit. Its actually been really beneficial.
A: Can you see any benefits to having smaller junk?
J; Sometimes a big dick can be too much of a good thing. I also feel like the smaller cocks i've encountered all get really hard and some of the bigger ones tend to go up and down a bit, just my experience and its by no means something that applies to every sitiuation.
A: There's nothing more annoying than a really big cock that never quite gets there. Mine get's as hard as a rock haha. I was gunna ask you about your sex life. I think there's a perception that smaller dick guys are always bottoms.
J: Yes thats definitely the case. I'm versatile and I definitely enjoy being fucked by a smaller cock. I've also never had any complaints when I've topped.
A: I dunno about you though, but sometimes I'm so desperate to have a massive cock in my pants, just to know what that feels like. I have real cock envy sometimes haha.
J: I think we all have fantasies and I definitely like the idea of a massive dick at times. Sometimes at the beach or in my underwear I feel a bit exposed but i'm learning to feel less bothered by it.
A: Have you encountered anyone that had a small dick fetish?
J: I actually haven't in my sexual life, or not that i know of, but i know it exists, i found this entire subset community of people who appreciate and prefer smaller cocks. I think there are different facets to that community too, there are guys who appreciate small dick and those who enjoy the humiliation aspect of it.
A: I can definitely fetishize men with small dicks. I dunno if it's just that feeling of comradeship haha. I think there's a sweet vulnerability to a less endowed guy sometimes.
J: I absolutely related to this. When I see a smaller or more average guy I think I'm defintely more drawn to them. It's pretty brave to show your junk off in a world that can seem obsessed with massive dicks.
A: Yeah for sure. I love smaller/average guys who will get their cocks out for meat and show that not everyone is hung like a horse or that it's an absolute requirement to be considered sexy.
J: It's one of the things i love about meat, it feels like you celebrate so many different kinds of men. I think dick discrimination is cruel and shaming and we really need to change the conversations we have about size and how we feel about it. i think if you're writing someone off because of the size of their cock, it kind of says more about you than them.
A: More small cock pride!
J: I think the reason a lot of guys have issues about their size, whether thats feeling smaller than average or being smaller endowed, come about because we don't see enough regular people naked. And we're not in the minority here. I am sure more guys are average than large. We've become embarrassed to be nude in public spaces like locker rooms and i think if anyone feels like they are struggling with their body image they should go and find a safe space to be naked, whether thats a nude yoga class, a nude beach or a spa and just walk around and take it all in.
A: It's about normalising normal bodies, I think.
J: Completely this. Not everyone is a porn star or model, and there are more of us than them out there! Dicks come in all shapes and sizes, and they're all amazing. Also, i'm not going to grow a bigger dick by hating the one I have.
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Thanks to Joe for talking to me. I'd love to know what you guys think about dick size and if you feel like sharing your pictures and stories, please get in touch with meat at hello@meatzine.com
Adrian
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